Destiny vs Choice

May 26

It is not “Destiny” that determines “Love”
It is “Choice”. Our so called “Destiny” is a lie.

Relationships last long not because they’re destined to last long.
Relationships last long because two brave people made a choice – to keep it, to fight for it & to work for it.

Meanwhile, other relationships fail not because they’re destined eto fail.
They failed because one of the two, or both, made the choice – to set each other free.

(Text message from a batchmate – Mommy Jenny Flores, CNHS Class of 1999)


  1. i strongly agree with it! relationships succeed because two people fought and endured all the trials given to them! destiny for me is just a false hope, for people who don’t have enough excuse for their failure!

  2. well said hehe.

    galing talga sa english oh.. nosebleed 😛

  3. hehe, i used to believe that destiny is true, but after experiencing the hardships, then came over the thinking….destiny happens because people chose to do something over one thing! it’s a matter of choice! hardships will never end…but i’m doing my best to be happy with or without someone beside me!

  4. It is the choices that we make that defines us, not destiny. That’s my life’s philosophy. But still, I can’t believe how many people still believe in destinies. Sometimes I want to shake them and tell them, “Wake up and use your gray matter!” But hey, their lives are not my responsibility anyway. 🙂

  5. well said doc 😉

    it all ends up to a reason why the head is on top and not the heart.

  6. poell, hello 🙂 emo mo moment ba ‘to? so so true nonetheless.

    we met at nike’s ryt? please send me nmn photo ouf you guys whom i met that night, so i can relate the face with the names 🙂 appreciate it! and btw, i’ll add you on my blogroll na din!


  7. As Neo said, “Choice, the problem is choice.”

    Most people are blinded by their emotions and they find it hard to choose what’s right and what’s not.


  8. thanks for dropping banggigay, i have a few shots on my fone. jayvee and markku has lots but i think they havent uploaded them yet.

    shane – thats exactly whats its all about. CHOICE.

  9. curious /

    i still believe in destiny i think think happen for a reason and that’s whatit is meant to be.

  10. That’s right. It takes work to keep a relationship going. If both people in the relationship don’t work at it, it will be destined to fail. It doesn’t take just one person, but a team of two. This is a great reminder!

  11. choice not a reson/destiny!

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